Re: Mahr Question
Apologies if you took my comment badly, it was no attack on you girly_girl...
I wouldn't wish you any troubles be they money related/dress or family related.. It is hard enough fnding a good hsuband never mind issues that shouldn't be there..
I appreciate it that it this is a given right and yes a couple of £1000 is no issue
I agree that the fiance has dealt with the situation very badly but I guess what worries me is that the issue here is not due to anything more than money..
I think his family are money orientated and that is not a good start to the rishta..
We end up spending 1000's on relatively useless commodities so feels like things are coming out formt he woodwork that give you signs
I find that people can be very cruel for the sake of saving a few moulahs..
Haq Mehr.. The guy is being an eejit.. If you have full belief in your wife and you consider her to be part of your long term future then he should understand that haq mehr is staying within the family
I think ALLAH gives you signs and may be this is one of them..
INSHALLAH things will work out and just pray and do ISTIKHARA
thinking of you..