Madly in Love...

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@MIAinVA

It isn’t THAT bad, I never believed in love… have always been the independent sort… got married at the age of 28 cuz I wanted a family, my home and my kids. It took me 2-3 years to develop love-like feelings for my husband, not that I told him that he thinks I’ve always been in love with him from the beginning… I’m still totally independent, but I do have that emotional tie with him which does NOT stem out of dependency.

Yes I do rant sometimes about little things sometimes, but it doesn’t mean I don’t love him. I care about him, he is the most handsome guy in the world to me except when he puts on weight and then I bug him to go to the gym.

Sure, he is not perfect and i know his shortcomings but I do love him a lot and there is a LOT I would do for him if needed, and he would do for me too. We have that trust and respect in our relationship as well as an attachment and feeling of fondness/caring… I think that qualifies as love, no??

I don’t want to start on “love after marriage” stuff .. just a little question to you .. .. .. could be harsh but i have no words except it to make u realize the situation.

DON’T GET OFFENDED .. i apologize in advance

even if you have a dog for 10 years, would not you feel attached to it .. .. will miss it if its not around .. .. .. ???

love after arrange marriage is more like a compromise .. since “you don’t have an option except him” .. .. .. ..