i am posting here first tym n i duno if i shud ask this q here or not but here v go…
ifa girl gets married in early age to some1 which is an arranged marraige n she is happy with this person n have a family with him but then some how she meets some1 n she falls love with him n now she thinks tht shes not happy with er hubby or she cud have better lyf if she wsnt married etc tec…
so my to u ppl is …
kia yeh sahi he…
**kia he LOVE pyar mohabbat he yeh phr just a crush or infatuation …?
KIA SHADI KE BAD PYAR KISI AUR SE HO SAKTA HE…?
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Well, if the girl was happy and content with her husband, I don't think she would be "looking" for another relationship. Maybe she might be bored with her existing relationship.
Also, it may not be love.
But who knows what goes on in the minds of humans. We are a strange race.
lol this sounds like that movie- kabhi alvida na kehna- when rani married abhishek and she fell in love with sharukh after her marriage-- pretty interesting--
People who are truly effed up in the head would go looking for someone else when they are already happy in one relationship. It doesnt matter that her marriage was arranged or love... kids and love and happiness did come out of the relationship no matter how these two got together in the first place. I love it how people try to justify their ghattiya behavior sometimes by playing the "oh my marriage was arranged, Im not completely happy... or I didnt get a chance to live my life my marriage was arranged." Bullshieet! You said yes, you married him, now dela with it. And if you're not happy, then get a divorce first and then go look for another man or woman or whatever floats your boat. Gawd, what in the world are desis coming to????
If an individual is in love with someone else how can you guarantee that the other person isn't a player/flirt or simply time passing. Answer: You cannot. Therefore, it's wrong no matter how serious you are (once you're married and have kids you become a woman and have some responsibilities :))
Despite being quite young myself these are the views that I hold :)
People who are truly effed up in the head would go looking for someone else when they are already happy in one relationship. It doesnt matter that her marriage was arranged or love... kids and love and happiness did come out of the relationship no matter how these two got together in the first place. I love it how people try to justify their ghattiya behavior sometimes by playing the "oh my marriage was arranged, Im not completely happy... or I didnt get a chance to live my life my marriage was arranged." Bullshieet! You said yes, you married him, now dela with it. And if you're not happy, then get a divorce first and then go look for another man or woman or whatever floats your boat. Gawd, what in the world are desis coming to????
do we know the same person?
I know someone who is in that exact situation...and she says she cannot divorce, she was too young/forced etc.... and at first i felt sorry for her..but not any more...
i am posting here first tym n i duno if i shud ask this q here or not but here v go......
ifa girl gets married in early age to some1 which is an arranged marraige n she is happy with this person n have a family with him but then some how she meets some1 n she falls love with him n now she thinks tht shes not happy with er hubby or she cud have better lyf if she wsnt married etc tec...
so my to u ppl is ...
kia yeh sahi he...
kia he LOVE pyar mohabbat he yeh phr just a crush or infatuation ......?KIA SHADI KE BAD PYAR KISI AUR SE HO SAKTA HE.....?
Sara, its possible... I know of 4 skanks who are very open about what they're doing these days... but the situation you described.. does her name start with Sh??
.........jee naheen yeh cheating hai ( she's a big cheat , being married to her husband , have family with him , living with him, sleeping with him & in love with someone else , how come ?? )
KIA SHADI KE BAD PYAR KISI AUR SE HO SAKTA HE.....?
zaroor ho sakta hai ............ just the way she thought she's in love or falling in love with someone , same could happen to her husband too .
after reading all the responses on this thread! uptill now!! no one has said what is the real answer/or cause of an extra marital love struck feeling!!
i hope my answer will be crystal clear…
when a woman whether young or middle aged gets married! she naturally has high hopes about her future life!!! if the husband keeps her happy and satisfied, sawaal he paida nai hota, wo kisi ar teraf mu keray!!!
the moment, they start having conflicts too much of arguments and fire in their relation, BOTH parties, not women only seek peace of mind and especially “the special some onc feeling” jis ki waja say admi hoga to wo koi lerki huns kay bolay gi, usko attention pay keray gi, usay bohut acha lagay ga..
vice versa, jub lerki bilkul toot chuki hogi upni shaadi life mein n has no help or support from anywhere, she becomes like a empty paper, the moment any man looks at her, smiles at her, discuss her life with her, gives her time and affection, she will naturally feel the “Love struck” thingy.. that empty paper will be filled with colors again!!!
ye hota hai piar shaadi kay baad, in both male n female cases!!!
