…is easy or difficult?
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Loving someone is easy, but forgetting someone is more difficult.
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Easy if you want to do it. But not always easy, because you don't always want to give yourself up for the other.
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Easy IF the other person is some one who you can trust fully and whose core doesn't change through time. So, in practicality, it is not easy.
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very difficult.
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depends on the circumstances i suppose :D
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depends on the individuals definition of love....depends on who/how the other person is and their definition of love...and lots of other thingss
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locing is easy ... coming through on it is hard
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Extremely Extremely Extremely Extremely Difficult
To reach a stage where ur so selfless that u think of the other person first in everything u do (humanly not possible according to me) is when u love, call it cliche but i think this can only be achieved in parents love for a child because they r physically a part of them but to reach tht in a partner is impossible.
Love is definitely very hard and a constant battle and surprisingly wat makes it so difficult are ur own feelings!
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A lot goes in to love...respect, adaptability, sensitivity to the other's feelings, making a point to be kind and thoughtful, personal sacrifices, even just smiling at your loved one. It's not easy...but when all this is reciprocated, it's definitely worth it. :)
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So easy when its the right person.
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Loving someone is easy, but forgetting someone is more difficult.
Yes. You mean falling in is easy but it takes time to fall out. an then there is some long lasting effects.
Easy if you want to do it. But not always easy, because you don't always want to give yourself up for the other.
The self respect?
Easy IF the other person is some one who you can trust fully and whose core doesn't change through time. So, in practicality, it is not easy.
Yes. The core is the core issue there. it takes time to get to that in a person. Love at first sight is so overrated.
very difficult.
Please elaborate a little more. :)
depends on the circumstances i suppose :D
Yes.
depends on the individuals definition of love....depends on who/how the other person is and their definition of love...and lots of other thingss
locing is easy ... coming through on it is hard
Ek Aag Ka Darya Hai Aur Doob Ke Jaana Hai.
Extremely Extremely Extremely Extremely Difficult
To reach a stage where ur so selfless that u think of the other person first in everything u do (humanly not possible according to me) is when u love, call it cliche but i think this can only be achieved in parents love for a child because they r physically a part of them but to reach tht in a partner is impossible.
Love is definitely very hard and a constant battle and surprisingly wat makes it so difficult are ur own feelings!
Basically you have two scenarios.
1- You are ready to give yourself up. On one extreme, teenager love is that kind of love (If you even call that love). You have a craving to love someone.
2- Other is when person grows up or failed in previous relations, the person becomes either numb or skeptical of letting the feelings go freely.
A lot goes in to love...respect, adaptability, sensitivity to the other's feelings, making a point to be kind and thoughtful, personal sacrifices, even just smiling at your loved one. It's not easy...but when all this is reciprocated, it's definitely worth it. :)
Agree to all. Love does not require a reciprocal feelings. So much is written on one way love and in practical life we see that all the time.
For some it is still worth it. These people get hurt more. Others call them fools.
So easy when its the right person.
Or love makes them seen as "right person"??
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Koi khush khabri hai kya? ;)
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I wish.
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jaise kahnaa aasaan aur karnaa mushkil usii taraH pyaar bhii hai...pyaar zabaan se kah denaa aasaan magar dil se karnaa mushkil.
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jaise kahnaa aasaan aur karnaa mushkil usii taraH pyaar bhii hai...pyaar zabaan se kah denaa aasaan magar dil se karnaa mushkil.
Yes. Lets hear some ashaar on that one. Knowing you like Urdu Poetry.
Let me make one: My own.
Un Ka Izhaar e Muhabbat Hai Sar Aankhon Pe Magar
Wo Samjhte Hain Ke Ishq Bohat Aasan Hai
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loving someone is easy but keeping a relationship fresh and binded together is difficult. Working on a relationship is harder to keep the "Love" in it.
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shadi se pehle asaan,shaadi k baad mushkil :@:
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^ Not true… 
It’s not easy to love and even more difficuilt to keep, but with most things in life it requires great sacrifice and much determination. It’s easy to profess love but hard to prove it.
And it’s becoming ever more difficuilt to prove it these days… some of histories greatest lovers would probably end up in mental wards today. Love is not for the faint hearted.
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We do not fall in love, we climb to it. To gain love we must give it. We must ... not seek love where we place it. We are in love when we are out of it.
The first stage of love is selfish, the second stage of love is mutual favour, the third stage of love is self-sacrifice and the final stage of love is unconditional benevolence (i.e. always thinking that what you do is nothing but mere gesture; that the recipient of your love is far beyond anything you do, every action is for the other but always falls short of what the other deserves.)
On this merit it is easy to love someone, because it may be selfish, but it is progressively harder to reach higher levels of love for the same someone.