The selfish lover will return less than they receive or will be deceptive with what they give out.
He will give praise in return for favour and enjoin arrogance upon praise.
The lover by mutual favour will return equal to what they receive and behave like a mirror to the other.
They begin to see that there is fulfilment in self-gratification and in the gratification of others. However this
is a hopeless state as it means people will try to make others happy and rely on others to keep them happy.
The self-sacrifciing lover will not expect return but feel gain in their sacrifice. This state is tainted and diminishes
when no sense of gain is felt when sacrifice is made.
The unconditionally benevolent will resign any need for fulfilment and continue to show love to the other even if
beaten and humiliated. This state has no weakness to the initiated, but most fear entering the door to this state
or are unable to enter this state as a result of it betraying their sense of dignity.
