Sad isnt it? and then we wonder WHY women have behaviors that stem from insecurity–because they didn’t get that security where and when it mattered most. And before you all get your collective panties in a bunch, stop kidding yourselves–just because it doesn’t happen to you or in YOUR family doesn’t mean more than half hte population in Pakistan still doesn’t treat their women or think like this. As someone said above, that’s “desi” mentality thats still very well alive and kickin.