Re: Love vs. Parents marzi
first of all i would like to say is if ur friends bf (the one in pakistan) is really committed to ur friend then he must have spoken to the mom buttttttt................... if he is saying that he is too too young then i promise u that he is actually leading her on with something else in mind but then where as they r saying that this khandan is good and rich and wealthy "how sure r they that their dauter will b happy in this house..........money is not everything and yes money can buy alot of material things but it cannot promise someone elses future and ur friend will she be happy will she be able to forget this other guy will she b able to move on and these r the only Q? she can answer to but i must say this much that when parents say that the khandan is nice that means either 1) they r being selfish to the point where they want ppl to c that they have found very high classic ppl or 2) that they really dont care for their daughters happiness and just marry her off for the heck of it cause i have not heard no parent taking a decision so fast on their daughter's future and i must say i just hope they kow what they r doing cause in the long run it's their daughter who will b spending all **
**the time with her new-in-laws ...........i m sending all my best wishes for her and may god bless her and give her the strenght and happiness she deserves and one more thing tell her to weight the pros&cons about this relationship and the guy she is so in love with .................good luck babz....