How do u know if u are really in love with someone and it is not just physical attraction.
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it is not possible that you love a girl without any physical attraction, love always have a physical aspect, otherwise we can love our pets, we can love our parents, friends etc.
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i think i am in love with this guy. when ever i am around him i get this "feeling" and every thing he does is perfect. but i want to make sure it is really love and not lust
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http://www.paklinks.com/gs/showthread.php?t=284465
This is love, Do you feel this way ?
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omg! that is exactly how i feel. this one time i hung out with him at my cousings house and we talked a little and i couldn't sleep or eat for a week!
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hihihi...
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my parents thought I was sick and wanted to take me to the doctors!! LOL but i had to convince them it was just a stomach bug and that I would b ok
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i just wished that he loved me back:(
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so have you asked him if he "loves" you back?
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If you both deserve each other then there is no shame to ask the BIG question :)
and by Big question i mean 'marriage' and not a love affair :)
Good luck :biggthumb
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desichick u have a very interesting story
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its a liust GIRL n DESI CHICK...its the same thing k agar app store pe jaoo and appka dil kisi shirt pe ajayee...aur app kuch bhi ker k woh shirt ley loo..common sense..1 hazaar shirts mains e koi ektu apsand ani hi hai..and jab buy kelroo...tu baad main corner main almaari main aprdi hotii hai after like 2/3 yrs..attraction woh saari chali jaati hai..similarly....there's no such thing as love..sirf infatuation hai..
LOve friends k beeach main jo care hai, parents and siblings se jo attachment hotii hai ussya kehtey hain:)
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waisya i'd say try kerlain app...if he likes u too..den go ahead talk to yr parents n all.if not..then who cares...lol:)..just move on:)..
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u dont beleive in love Babul ki Gudiya? how can u not believe in love? 
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I have seen it many time when guy want to acheave "certain goals" they will say every thing girl want to hear. All assurances , love talk etc etc.
Not very many stick around after they get bored of the "stuff"
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hey desichick- try hanging out with him more and see if he shows any signs of flirtyness and finally pop the big question- tell him how u feel and ask him if he feels the same way-
Babul Ki gudiya-- i think shes talking abt love- with a human- not a shirt- bc there 2 typs of love - one with ur family pets etc- and one with sumone liek ur husband bf etc- who u cant live without- im sure she can live without a shirt she loved at the store -- lol
good luck desichick
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hmm is it just that u've just seen him and never talked to him?.. if you havent yet... try talking to him... if you're really looking forward to marry him... try getting to know him better through his friends...good luck :)... and see what kind of friends are accompanying him..trust me... you know a lot about the person just by knowing what kind of friends he has.
Love these days phew!!
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and yes as far as you asking whether its love or lust...well nobody here i guess can answer that...ask yourself... do u just want to have that with him and thats it..or do u really want to have relationship with him.. its ok if theres physical attraction involved in it... as the saying goes " woh ishq he kya jo husn pe qurbaan na ho jaye ".. so ya.. just ask yourself and see wat your heart says..