love vs. lust

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Sali dere's nuthing LIke love trust me...>>>kisi dog ko bhi paalo tu ussay mohabbat ho jaati hai...And itnay loog hain jo husband k bagair jeetey hain..jinaab i think apki shaadi nahi hoyii..jab hogayii tab puchoongi after 10 yrs...lol.l..

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well app sab jaan jayain gaye love doesnt exist...jo attraction hai dats infatuation and woh khatam hojaati hai..Aur love attraction nahi hotii..bus kisi ki kuch baatein .wagaira and jistarah woh hain acha lagnay lagta hai..and u start caring for dem..per jinaab ..after like 5 /10 yrs ...woh saari attraction khatam hojaati hai and wohi shaks bura lagnay lagta hai..lol..

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mY ADVICE: KISI ko apni adat na banana k uskay bina jii na paoo..Coz iss duniya main nothing is forever, and nothing stays forever:)

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babul ki gudiya.. this whole world is connected with love... if there wasnt ...nobody would have been alive today.. theres love for everything that Allah has given us.. love between a child and mother, love between husband/wife.. love between a child towards his/her parents.. etc.... this is all love.. babul ki gudiya ..aapko ko ghalat fehmi hui hai... pyaar to bahar haal husband/wife mein actually zyaada hota jaata hai as they stay together.. wo baat alag hai ke jo hum movies mein dekhte hain uss tarah ka love sirf thori der ke liye hota hai..per when you're together for some time...have kids.. this is the only unit ull love!.. ye alag baat hai ke shaadi se pehle jis larki/larke ko aap gifts waghera dete ho..to show ur love for them.... agar uss se shaadi ho jaye to uss tarah ke gifts waghera nahi de paate..lekin is ka ye har giz matlab nahi liya jaa sakta ke pyaar khatam ho jaata hai..infact love 1 next level pe pohonch jaata hai jahan pe "i love you" ya kuch fancy cheez nahi karni parti balke obvious baat ban jaati hai .. the way they care for eachother.. the way they start respecting eachother... this is what love is all about.

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LOL....SHAADI K BAAD KAAFI LOOG HATE KeRNEY LAGTAY HAIN EK DOSRAY KO..LOVE DISAPPEARS..KHAIR.....and jo pyaaar parents /family /friends se hai..woh sirf attachment /care hai jisko pyaar ka naam diya hai.
SO called love...jismain loog kehtey hain we'll die without u woh bhi aik jahlak dekhnay k baad ..woh sab dekhawa hota hai...ya attraction hoti hai..jo jald khatam hojaatio hai..asal pYAAR (care)..tu personality se hotii hai..:)

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anywyas....app ka point mujhay maloom hai kiya hai..isliyee tu keh rahi hoon hum first-sight love ko Pyaar samajh bethtey hain ..jo k attr4action si hotii hai..coz uss banday ki personality ko hum jantay nahi hotay...

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Kambal koi Islam par bhi lecture de do plz :barbie:

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ji aapki baat bilkul sahi hai... hum uss baat ko love at first sight samajh bethtey hain.. i know its not love... love's got much more to it... khair...chaahe aap iss ko attachment kaho ya kuch bhi... is ko hum pyaar ka naam dete hain...

aor haan.... shaadi ke baad husband/wife aik doosre se hate karne lag jaate hain?..o c'mon now!!.... hate kahan pe dekhi aap ne.. kaafi wajoohaat ho sakti hai hate ki.. for example.. spouse wasnt like how they expected.. a person's behaviour... aor kaafi wajuhaat hoti hain.. in-family issues...these are the conflicts that lead husband/wife hating eachother...otherwise.. it all works out well...

ps: dont mind me asking but... doesnt your parent love eachother?... ya isse bhi attraction he kaho ge?..

love = attraction.. but attraction doesnt always equal love.

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babul ki gudiya- wen i get married ill love my husband the same way 70 years later as i loved him from day 1- i think aap ki life mein thori complications hongi bc not many ppl start to hate each other after marriage- like frozen fire sed above there are conflicts that may lead to husband wife hating each other- but its a love hate thing-and they get over it after a day or 2- but there is something called LOVE- anyways this is to help desi chick- not for us to sit here and debate on whether or not love exists- for some it does and for others it doesnt- -- desichick this is for u to ask urself wat ur heart says- Good luck :)

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its not an either-or thing.....you need love AND lust in a relationship......ideally speaking...

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GEUSS WHAT MR..MY PARENTS..Huh..they r divorced..unko bhool jayain..BAAQI 12-15 other couples that i knw, ya tu woh majboori main saath hain( kids, culture) ya tu woh seperate ho chukay hain..and khaali 2-3 couples hongaye jo saath reh ekr khsuh hain ..well i didnt literally ask dem if they r happy..per they were together..
AND ALL of them r PAKISS!
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wELL SALI...APKI TARAH I WAS LOST IN A LALA LAND TOo..UNFORTUNATELY LIFE Waisi NAHI HAI JAISI APP SOCHTII HOO..I WORK AND MAIN INTERVIEW KERTII REHTI HOON AURTOON KA, FAmILIES KA..FRIENDS AND UNKAY parents ka..lol
khair....ankhain khul jaati hain...abhi u r at home prolly or real social life shuron nahi hoyii na...try looking out of the box...

and dont worry meray saath aisa wiasa koi scene nahi howa...per apni ankhon se dosron k ghar tootay dekhain hain..

Chalo good luck for ur future..ALlah keray Pyaar huemsha rahay app dono main:)(apkay aur apkay hubby main)
AMen,
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Aaj Kiss Baat Par Gussa Aaya ??????
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ameen thank u for the dua- and i hope all the best with u- and with all the people out there who are stuck in a relationship and cant get out- and like i sed- some people believe in love and some dont- u might have experiences and thats why u came to a conclusion that there is no such thing as love- but its its hard to change someone elses thought about it-- so i guess i dont believe that fact that there is NO such thing as love- but hey- uve experienced alot so i cant go againts ur theory- Good luck with everything :)

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chalo no comments...:) Bus my advice..Keep yr eyes open ...Iss duniya ko hurt na kerney dena khud ko..and always keep yr options open too..:)>>