Re: Love or Arrange marriages?
You know all this talk about "love". You know its possible to plant the seeds of love, water it with the understanding that both of you have, and feed it the basic ingredients (trust, care, submission, etc) and you'll have a healthy growth, of love ofcourse.
And only islam provides that for you. The things needed to make this growing love into a tree, that'll give you sweet delicious fruits -forever.
So, getting back to the topic at hand...You have the power to plant the seed, provided you can be a good caretaker...it all depends on how you plant it and give it what it needs, and whats required from you.
Be a better caretaker, and the person will love you and all that makes you -for eg. Islam. (inshallah...)
{lol don't laugh at my analogy}