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how can one “FALL IN LOVE” online, i mean fine you like a person, you talk often and you try to get to know the person, but LOVE well … beats me , then again i know a few ppl with succesful stories , khair …
In my opinion until i dont meet the person inperson I dont think i can call my feelings towards her “LOVE” yeah i would probably call it attraction and i would for sure wanna pursue this to see where it leads to but…, well thats my opinion :k:
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have said it many times to my freinds n will say it one more time..
online relationships are purely one sided. if u r chatting u r just interpreting it ur own way. sum1 else's words but said in ur own way. eg if a guy says i was thinkin bout u (they cud have meant as a freind i alwasy tell my firends tat --guys n gals) but the gal cud take it the other way n thus the whole thing starts..i know sum ppl here belived in it n i pray IA it works out for them but it's always better to meet the person before proceeding or developing feelings. one more thing..talking on the phone w/o acutally having met isn't a substitution to face to face meeting..
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Do you guys really think long distance dating can be a serious business which can lead to marriage? I mean, a girl and a guy got introduced on internet, they mite have also met 1-2 times with the agreement of their families, but can guys really be serious to any girl just over internet (after having a knowledge that they are compatible etc)? Marriages are common amongst colleagues/ class fellows coz guys meet and see the girls on a daily basis and this forms a strong connection. But can guys be emotional enough to miss a girl over chat, video chat etc, obviously after knowing that they can be a good match.
Do guys only get interested while having regular interaction/ meeting with girls through physical interaction or can they be REAL SERIOUS over internet too (I mean after seeing the girl physically for a few hours and talking to her over voice chat for a few hours which could had him feeling that the compatibility is present)?
Can guys become serious for long distance relationships? I know girls usually are very emotional... but can guys be emotional serious and sincere when in a long distance relationship where they do not get to meet the girl on a daily basis? The wait mite be because of any reason, the families taking time to decide on the marriage thing etc etc...
Can guys be serious enough to continue with the girl (just by being in touch through internet living far away from each other) despite the distance while waiting for things to sort out?
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why are you bumping all old threads and posting the same question in all of them?!?!?!
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so that at least any one could post a reply... I really want to know this :$
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in short, yes it can but it depends on the two people involved.
every single relationship in the world is unique because every person is unique and has different expectations.
If the two people are willing to make it work and they are REALISTIC in their views, then yes, it can work.
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je muje ek guppy bohat pasand hai:blush:
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I'll reply to this post later on. Abhi maireee MSN wali online aa gaee hai ....pehley I was busy with Yahoo wali ;)
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I think online one is more addictive only because you are living in a lala land with no worries .
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(@KKF) sorry, i don't believe it.
you might think it's real but you're only seeing one side to a person. you don't know if the interaction would be the same irl, you don't know how they interact with other people irl or anything. it's largely a fantasy.
I agree with this post. You don't really know much about this online person except fr what he/she wants you to think. You don't know how you would gel with in real life, face to face...you dont get to see all the facets of their personality etc...I dun see how it is possible.
The only possibility I do see if getting to find/know someone online & THEN meeting them in real life....and gong from there......but still......what if it is all lies?
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I am talking about getting introduced online... then meeting with families involved.. in fact families arranging the meeting etc... the guy n girl felt the connection by having voice chat for 4-5 hours and found each other compatible... then families taking some time to think about the proposal... meanwhile the guy n girl just keeping in touch by being on each other's chat... both try to let each other see each other online once in a while just to let the other know about themselves... both are shareef and do not engaged in unnecessary talk/ chat until the families finalise something although both have given hints to each other about their liking for each other...
in this case, can both continue to be serious while waiting for their families to decide (while they both hope it happens sometime soon)... girl being emotional can continue to have a feeling for the guy... but can guys feel for a girl although he does not see her regularly physically... so guys are emotional enough to have a feeling for a girl although living far from each other?
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No. I think i am alot smarter than THAT.
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I am talking about getting introduced online... then meeting with families involved.. in fact families arranging the meeting etc... the guy n girl felt the connection by having voice chat for 4-5 hours and found each other compatible... then families taking some time to think about the proposal... meanwhile the guy n girl just keeping in touch by being on each other's chat... both try to let each other see each other online once in a while just to let the other know about themselves... both are shareef and do not engaged in unnecessary talk/ chat until the families finalise something although both have given hints to each other about their liking for each other...
in this case, can both continue to be serious while waiting for their families to decide (while they both hope it happens sometime soon)... girl being emotional can continue to have a feeling for the guy... but can guys feel for a girl although he does not see her regularly physically... so guys are emotional enough to have a feeling for a girl although living far from each other?
guys don't show it, but they have emotions as well.
I had a proposal a few months ago where he and I were given the choice to talk and get to know each other. We did talk to each other and he was a nice. Some issues arised because of which the proposal was rejected.
I, being a girl, did NOT get attached to him but he somehow did. :S It was so weird and still is weird.
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guys don't show it, but they have emotions as well.
I had a proposal a few months ago where he and I were given the choice to talk and get to know each other. We did talk to each other and he was a nice. Some issues arised because of which the proposal was rejected.
I, being a girl, did NOT get attached to him but he somehow did. :S It was so weird and still is weird.
How did you know he got attached to you? What things did you notice in his behaviour which made you feel like that? How long did you remain in touch with the guy?
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Most of the "love online" cases ends at "breakup offline"
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Most of the "love online" cases ends at "breakup offline"
And most of the "Love Offline" cases end at "break up online" by sending a good bye email and C YA NEVER note :P
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And most of the "Love Offline" cases end at "break up online" by sending a good bye email and C YA NEVER note :P
my comments were serious :)
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my comments were serious :)
So were mine :)
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So were mine :)
make us believe :)
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make us believe :)
Sorry.. currently not involved in any online or offline chukkar of LOVE SHOV :( In fact, have never been involved in any... but have got reasonable experience by observing whole lot of everyone engaged in this non-sense...
but seriously.. online break up is a nice way of face saving when u want a break up... I guess they also change the cell numbers :P as they say
Modern Love Story: Starts From Mobile, Grows With Sms & Ends With Sim *Change (and a Good bye email) :P
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