Love n life

[parissenoor]

Re: Love n life

@nia_khan

I am not even talking about western love :~)

but yes sadly most of them marry out of LUST. And it stays for some time and then boom they fall out of love again.

If Divorce was not such a taboo issue i bet you Pakistan would have the HIGHEST divorce rate.

I am sure if you go around in circle in your family and friends you will see many couples living with each other becuase they have too

not because they want too.. there is heck of a difference there

Muhabat ek behad paak jazba hai is ko koi ilzaam na do

:k: very well said;)

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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@nia_khan

I am not even talking about western love :~)

but yes sadly most of them marry out of LUST. And it stays for some time and then boom they fall out of love again.

If Divorce was not such a taboo issue i bet you Pakistan would have the HIGHEST divorce rate.

I am sure if you go around in circle in your family and friends you will see many couples living with each other becuase they have too

not because they want too.. there is heck of a difference there

Muhabat ek behad paak jazba hai is ko koi ilzaam na do

Nia there are many loveless marriages that were not arranged.

[Man_with_a_Plan]

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People, there is nothing 'happy" about marriage. Its life with happy and sad moments combined. Offcourse, if you compare the sad moment of your marriage with happy when you were single than yeah your marriage is hell.

If you think you are not happy being single than marriage ain’t gonna help. Too many frequent lifetime/ bollywood lovers.

I don’t know despite knowledge why do people line-up to get married ?

…Especially guys like “Is this the way to loose half of my ****…my house, car, bank account…child support…hell yeah count me in”

[Nilu]

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@MYwish

I have a friend, a guy, Who is engaged to a someone but loves another girl. How he got engaged to the first lady is a long story and one with which most of us are familiar with, pressure from the family.

But before you start throwing stones, let me tell you that he never was in a relationship with the lady he loves though she is aware of his feelings. The guy doesnot connect very well with the fiancee who is a nice girl(and he never tries to badmouth her or anything) but he still wants the girl he loves. What should he do, be honest and break the news to the family and his fiancee and face the wrath, or go along with their wishes and get into a marriage that might or might not work out. What would you do if you were in a similar situation.

I think he has to talk with his parents about this sitiuation.
Coz if he will marry his fiancee i think it would'nt work becoz he
doesn't love her but he love some1 else, And its also not fair if he marry his
fiancee and he love someone else.. he will distroy his own life and her life.
So let him talk to his parents about this.
Nilu.

[Uncle_G]

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@AnGeL EyEs

how do you know he will give her heartache later? it all depends on the person. It is in his control whether or not he will cause great heartache.

Precisely! If he's in a relationship or engaged to one girl, and cares for or is in love with another girl, then he can't really stop loving one and start loving the other. I'm sure he can learn to love or fall in love with the first girl if things didn't work out with the second girl, but that's just not fair to the first girl that he was originally engaged to.

[nia_khan]

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@AnGeL EyEs

Nia there are many loveless marriages that were not arranged.

I am sorry you arent making sense at all…

Only way one would do that is out of MONEY. Isn’t money indirectly LUST as well.

[AnGeL_EyEs]

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@nia_khan

I am sorry you arent making sense at all....

Only way one would do that is out of MONEY. Isn't money indirectly LUST as well.

what i was trying to say is that there are many love marriages that end up becoming "loveless" later down the road...sorry if i wasnt being clear.

[parissenoor]

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@AnGeL EyEs

what i was trying to say is that there are many love marriages that end up becoming “loveless” later down the road…sorry if i wasnt being clear.

how can real love die??
lots of people are lyers, cheaters…that does not mean you can not trust a lyer and a cheater to tell you that their marriage has become loveless so they are cheating on their husband/wife…

real love last long! i have many example in my family! as you know i am gori, so all my aunt and uncles made love marriages, but NO ONE in my family is divorced;)

of course for my grandmother who married the first nice guy to get out of poverty, that was not so happy

but as Nia said Money is not the best excuse to get married, cause unhappiness result in the long run, sure!