Just my general observation: I believe that many love marriages do not take place just simply because they don’t get approved of by parents,either by girls’ parents or boys’ parents or both ways..Anyways,wouldn’t it be good if,parents check out their children’s choices for marriage,and if they don’t agree,they could calmly make their children understand ,and even then,if their children remain persistent,then parents should just give in,and let them marry the person they want,and let them bear any consequences which may be there after marriage?If parents do that,then there wouldn’t be any such thing as called eloping,etc,isn’t it?
What do you think?
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jee nahi is tarha beta haath say nikal jata hai:chai: mei apnay betay ki dulhan khud dhoondoon ge.
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^ bilkul, main bhi sab ma'on ki tarha apnay chotay say betay ki biwi khud dhoondoon gi. Meray bhi kuch arman hain.. paal pos kay bara kia hai, kya isi din kay liye kay apni marzi say shadi ker lay. humph!
Jokes apart, in many cases parents of both sides or one side hardly ever give in. But yes i do wish, that they did understand the consequences of their disagreement over choosing a life partner of their baby's choice.
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Why not simply choose to respect the parents' wishes by not getting emotionally involved with the opposite sex?
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Yes the ideal thing is NOT to get involved with the opposite sex.. but IF a person is involved and there is this loooong term relationship going on then parents should understand. The kids are left with two choices: going against parents wishes (eloping, forcing the parents etc) or leaving the person they loved.
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^ I thought getting involved with opposite sex IS the idea thing.
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Ideal only of you can marry the person u loved.. Like the OP said , parents dont always give in to their kids wishes and you end up breaking the heart of the person you loved. So dont fall in love. I dont know.....
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^ So that means, once you have fallen in love,you shouldn’t breaking that person’s heart,and should marry him,even when the parents don’t agree? :aq:
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i say that if you drag the person into a long term relationship then u should have the guts to stand up for them .... if u knew u cldn't do it then wats the point in dragging the relationship to this point anyways ... cuz its not fair to the other person ... if u can not commit then why start it in the frst place
What i mean is that you know ur parents best, if they do not support love marriages then dont fall in love or like libranrulz said dont drag the relationship long enough which ends up hurting both your parents and the girl/guy. Parents do often give hints wheather they want their kids to find their life partner and sometimes openly despises love marriages.
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^ Do it even harder 
i am trying :k:
thanks for the support niagra falls :k:
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zobia
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^ hey kaun....supp man..how u doin? and ur new jaab?
yes, it happened to me …
then I woke up and it was monday morning :hinna: