*around me.. well right now, it's all the arranged marriages that are struggling, especially the girls (with less than great husbands). *
i know if someone is having is arranged marriage, it's comforting to think it will work out and be better than the alternative. in reality, it comes down to the people involved and if the other person is everything you expected them to be from what you have heard.
yeh at the end of the day it depends entirely on the families the person and the foundation the marrige was built. it im no expert in the area its just what i believe, and im sure other people would have a different view around depending on where they live and the type of families they have. like i said my judgement is purely based on the people around me