Re: LOVE Marriage - relationship change afterwards???
I think that many people are unable to differentiate between a "love" marriage and a "lust" marriage. Bollywood romances have really warped the idea in most young people's mind about what love is. They have an idealized impression that a love marriage means that they will have a natural understanding with their spouse, and that there will never be conflict.
Reality is that marriage is difficult, no matter how the couple meets and marries. An arranged marriage with no mental compatibility or mutual attraction is bound to fail unless it is held together by societal and familial pressures. Likewise, a love marriage with the expectation of a "filmi" life after marriage is similarly bound for failure.