Re: Love Marriage Ends in Divorce
I’ve been married for 3 years now, mine was the kind of love marriage in which your family disagrees and shows cold behaviour towards your decision. Till now they haven’t accepted my wife and didn’t even met her in person… and it was because of understanding of my wife’s mom and sister and brothers (excluding her dad who till now is not happy) that we got married.. the reason.. same punjabi pathan conflict, i’m a pathan and my wife’s a punjabi.. and our parents well.. the kind who’ll never agree to such combination 
I’ve seen lots of divorces that started with arranged marriages and ended with divorce. One thing my wife always say and to which I agree that no matter how bigger the conflict or fight between husband and wife, never involve any third person be it your brother, friend, aunt, mom, dad who ever and believe me we’ve had our ups and downs and following this rule of not involving third person we’ve always made through successfully and love each other even more when the fight is over…
I agree with the thoughts shared before that in love marriages it is your own personal decisions that are made before and after marriage and you have to work it out on ur own to make it successful and in arranged you have to respect your family and parents… but no doubt divorces in arranged marriages are much greater then the one with love marriages.
Last thing… i think we read it everywhere and hear it everywhere.. there’s hardly any tolerance left in us.. especially in our generation.