so ive been talking to my cousin (whose 16 and only a couple months older than me, and she lives in pakistan) so she thinks she’s gonna get married off early.. blah blah.. and she’s probably gonna have an arranged marriage, and she seems fine with it.
so realistically do u see yourself having and arranged or love marriage.??
i was wondering if more people living in pakistan picture an arranged marriage for themselves.. and more people here a love marriage.
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ghisa pita topic.
do a gupshup search, u'll find plenty of threads about this.
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suroor:
Its not like there s one anwser possible to this topic :) Besides that people have new point of views and havent seen/read old threads :)
I think most of the ''worldy" topics have been discuused here, so do you recommend to close Health and Relationships ?
Lets all search and bring back old threads :)
If u find it ghisa howa and pitha howa, dont respond. Others might like it
Many (mainly western) youngsters cope with such dilemma's.
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^ i never said others might not like it. i found it ghisa pita and i responded accordingly. and i think all the angles of love/hate/forced/arranged/semi-arranged marriages have been discussed and choked/strangled to death.
i shud have a fatwa against arrange/love marriage threads too!
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Love is such BS. There is no love marriage. Love begins when a guy puts that big clear rock on a girl's finger and does a mun mithai ceremony followed by a nikkah. Contracts rock.
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^ it better be a huge rock, if he wants me to fall in love w. him
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Move it to religion pls 
PCG: How would you call marriages where the kids like each other before marriage?
(in our culture rocks dont count, only yellow shiny stuff )
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How sad and unfortunate…true nature of today’s women.
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kaleem merai bhai, please dont do a PCG on us,
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They're infatuated. Love is dead.
And Rocks are so in. All the Defence ladies of Phase B are sporting diamonds. Duh.
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I will never understand a woman's love for the rock. It's just a rock.
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Its not love FOR the rock. Its love for the guy who had
The balls to make a commitment
To spend out of his hard-earned money for her. If he can buy her an expensive rock to bring that blush to her face, what can he not do?
The rock + signed contract = goal of almost every female on this planet for the above designated reasons.
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I read that part and I was 
than I read the rest of the line and I was like oh.
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love is dead when you have had many bad experiences in life which has blurred your emotions. (not talking about anyone ) .
Rocks are good. But only if you are buying one for the beauty it is.
Not because its in or out.
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Atlanta: Ladies and Gentlemen: Exhibit A: A chota pervert.
DP: I get accused of making generalizations and premature judgements all the time. Looks like I'm not the only one.
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Where did I generalize or judge?
Ask any mental dactar and he will tell you the same
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diamonds look like that other stone.. zarkoon (sp?). diamonds patah he nahien chalta k asli hai k nakli.. hehe. i like other stones better though, ruby, emerald (sp?) ?
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o ho. Don't tell me you've been talking to the jerk that I think you have. :)
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suroor, call me crazy, but I like those stones that are considered much more invaluable - you know the kind that when you go to those natural wonder kind of stores , and they have them in binds - like the AGATE, and gold flakes, etc?
Oh and onyx. That’s one jiggy stone.
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how exactly am I a pervert. 