ASSALM O ALAIKUM
This is my first visit to the forum and I have opened a new thread. I have been hurt badly by someone I loved very dearly and funny thing is I still love her, may be its my stupid nature:bummer: .
You all must be wondering why the name SUNYAY, 
she used to call me that and now I have been dumped as if I never existed. How can someone do that? Is love and relation, all about money? Because if it is then we should give it a different name, anything with monetary meanings, like “Stock Exchange” only in reverse, “Buy it when dear, sell when cheap”.
Any comments? Please do enlighten me.
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if she left you it wasnt true love.
dont worry about it....i know you wont believe me right now....cuz you'll be hurt etc....but one day you'll meet someone so good in your life that you wont even think about this one who dumped you.
she isnt even worth thinking about. just get on with other things in ur life....you have your families love ....thats enough for now....until one day when you find the girl who deserves you :)
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I agree with impulse. I don't think she is even worth thinking about. I can understand that these things happen to almost every1 but one must watch each and every step of his/her life. And what better solution than Quran & Sunnah. :)
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Ill correct you both quickly...True love doesnt ensure that a relationship will be harmonious...but in this case you prbably are right...
But to ascertain that we need some more information...
Firstly how long were you with her for?...why did she say you dumped you?...and before you start blaming it on money...can you think of things you did for it to go wrong?...
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You guys are correct to some extent, partially my fault. But she knew all along my situation and that I did something good for her. She was ready to elope with me because we are of different sects but I did not had the oddesity to hurt her parents, specially her dad, who loved her dearly. I knew it was coming and she will leave me one day but the way she has done was nothing near to what I expected at all. Sometimes, I feel that I was wrong, I should have given a damn about others and should have done when she was willing and ready.
My whole point now is I should have been respected for not doing any kind of evil, not punished. I know some of you may not believe me at all but thats how I am, stupidly caring for others.
The reason for my coming to this forum and writing all this is, may be someday she get to see all this and know how hurt I am, to a verge where I thought of commiting suicide but my love for her + all the pain of losing her are not enough powerful to do something I can never be forgiven for and also may be someday she need me.
Wherever you are PV, I wanna let you know that there is not a single moment without you in my thoughts. Nothing can ever overcome this pain of loss and the most merry moments of my life when I was with you. But I guess you are too busy in your new life to look back. But rest assure I will be there, where you have left me till I die, thinking of you and waiting for you.
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If she was ready to leave her parents who took care of her all life, what chance did you have.
Move on buddy.
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u'll get over her once someone new enters ur life. :D
tats da way life is.
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Yes That was not true love.................. The Best thing is just look farward and try to forget which happen to you in the past.... there are alots of people who have had the same problem. You Just Don't worry......Thinking that she was not for you..... Take the things easy :)
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well my sugguestion is just keep waiting for her and she will realized her mistake and one day she will come back to u some dayy
and meanwhile instead of ruining ur life for get educated and get a goood
job soo tht laters if u have to go and ask for her rista u are in a well good position
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Khabi PV theen tum hamari, ub kisi ki Pari ho
Koi kahay kuch bhy, hum kaisay kahain tum bori ho
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naah..iss sharee (poetry) main koi dard nahi
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No need to write these silly verses. Times have changed so move on buddy. True love is very hard to find these days and you have to be lucky to hit it. Otherwise move on to the next chapter of your book of life.
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You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in.
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Do I know you...??
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Sunyay - an ex is an ex for a reason...
Never go back to an ex or a lit firework...it will always end in disaster
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who are we to judge whether it was true love or not??? Just because u leave someone does not mean that was never true love ok. There could be other obstacles in the way that could have been a barrier....like he said there sects were different.....and if the girl would have left her parents would u say that she didn't love them??? No you can't. And how do we know that she doesn't feel the same way??? We don't know do we? And if she left u cuz you know her parents wouldn't agree....that means she still loves u and she was looking after ur future....cuz when parents get involved and are against love marriage....that could cause fights between the two ppl that are in love....
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Well, well i am bit tired of these lost love stories.
Reminds me of a young boy 16 years may be came to me at midnight with agonizing abdominal pain, wierd symptoms that did not fit into anything and he kept maoning. I noticed scars on his forearm, i confronted him and asked what is behind this pain, and he mumbled
"main aik larki sey piyaar kerta tha, us ney mujh ko dhoka diya" and i was like ...**** * *** ****... Anyhow, i calmly said to him to get lost from the emergency department and get a life. Amazingly, he stopped crying , got up and left.
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Always love someone without any expectations... less chances of mental damage!
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Sunyay, FOGEDABOUTIT!
Move on.
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Call it Seasonal Temp Love Exchange!