Re: Love and Hypocracy
The friends I knew were all foreign students at the university, only two of her friends resided in Pakistan, Aisha’s communications with these friends are limited. I’ve asked them many times to forward my message to her but they’ve yet to tell her. The friends do support me but also don’t want to be overly involved in something like this, I guess they don’t want to get dragged into this mess. She’s no longer in physical harm but I imagine the emotional harm has continued. She wasn’t a Singaporean citizen she was there on a student visa; I doubt I can convince the authorities as I have little to no evidence other than word of mouth from trusted people who I know do not want to get involved in such a serious matter.
I do realize it’s not my fault, but I could’ve done something to change the outcome, I should’ve been able to read her and what she was trying to tell me. She was shy; she had never been in a relationship like this before. I should’ve been more helpful, or I wish I could’ve learned how to better approach such a situation.
Be careful; if you do like him and know you are ready to be with him, stay with him. If you know your family well enough to know that they will not allow this, but know this is what you need and want then stay. But take what I say with a grain of salt, many guys (including me when I was a selfish hound) would coerce girls by trying to pit them against their parents or authority figure, it usually worked. Don’t get married forcefully, a good friend of mine was forced to marry a girl he didn’t have feelings for, a year after the marriage they had a child and got a divorce a few months apart; now that child will face a hard life, and the life of two adults is in ruin.
Goodluck with your endeavors, I hope whatever happens for the best.