Re: Love and Hypocracy
umm .. there is lots on my mind after reading your entry, some positives, some negatives -
1- Firstly, its great you realized in time that you were on a wrong track & got out of it as soon as you could.
2- Her dad did the right thing, no father agrees to get her daughter married off with a person who has had a bad reputation. Parents are insecure & such a decision is usually called for.
3- Those who told your dad about your background, not sure what to say. They did the right thing from their end.
4- Making out on the airport, really? You both made a wrong move here culturally, religously & socially.
5- Those who took your pictures & posted them, horrible horrible action. People who have such bad intentions usually end up in big trouble themselves as well.
6- But whatever happened to Aisha & what we know she went through & we dont know wen through is all sad.
You are right to a great extent - backbiting, gossips, back stabbing, eavesdropping are such bad habits in our society that they should actually be called cancerous. People’s words & actions hurt and cause a ripple effect in other’s life so much & they don’t really watch it. The least we can do is watch ourselves & those close to us being part of these things.
No doubt about what you’ve said, we should look to better ourselves as a community. I wasn’t to bothered by the fact I wouldn’t be able to marry her, but about what happened after too Aisha, it made my blood boil.