Love and Hypocracy

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Re: Love and Hypocracy

@redvelvet

The backstabbing exists everywhere, but because our culture is more conservative, a bigger deal is made out of things.

You said that the last you “heard” was that she was married to her cousin. Are you 100% sure about the accuracy of this information?

In the post above, you talk about her being raped by her cousin. If she’s accepted her marriage and has decided to reciprocate/make the relationship work…then that would be an assumption on your part (especially if she’s never complained to you about it).

Now, let’s say that you know with absolute certainty (from talking with her) that she’s miserable in her marriage and that despite her efforts things are not working out with her husband…would you consider talking to her about giving it another shot? If she wants to remain in her marriage…then of course, this wouldn’t apply. Maybe it’s wishful thinking on my part, I’m just curious.

I’m a 100% sure she is now married. The only reason I see Aisha marrying her cousin is to not lose what little her family has given her. You think she just magically fell in love with her cousin? From what she told me about her extended family was that they were fundamentalists to the bone, she told me how her chaachi called her a kanjiri behind her back to family because she was studying abroad.

Her family has cut her communications, I have no way of talking to her. I think her family would rather kill her then let her be with me.