I am not fighting over money.
It’s about responsibility. If he wishes not to save then that’s his choice… but I feel secure when I have savings - and my personal savings… because I don’t want to be dependent on him to save for me.
It is also a question about morals. If a hubby tells his wife that whatever she is earning is for herself… and DEMANDS her FULLY to be a housewife first and career as a last choice or perhaps as “her hobby”… then he has a responsibility to SAVE FOR HER FUTURE.
My hubby does not have enough saving that he can proudly claim for HIMSELF. Forget about me. I am no where in his future plans as far as finance is concerned.
So that’s why I want to look out for my future and my kids - AND hubby included - in case if something happens to him and he can’t work any more…
So he has hurt me to death. He has definitely taken away A LOT from me by using those threatening words to hand over all my money.