and I stopped reading after that Mabrook.. she should never ever hand out this money to him. Don't you think living 10yrs with that useless thing made her fully aware of his personality and his kinds? My sugestion to MJ is that become a dheet, no matter what he does, screams, pull his hair, break stuff, hangs himself just never budge and completely ignore his pleads. Don't even yell back at him because he gets the satisfaction out of it too.. and never show that you got a headache or getting all stressed out because of him.
but wot if a man is genuinely always in debt each month. as in the house rent is expensive and he is unable to save a single penny and he keeps tellin his wife paisay nahi hai and all that.. and he knows the wife has alot of money in savings??? i am goin thru the same **** rite now.. i m sick and tired of hearin his prbs and m tired of being told to spend money from my acct if i m so desperate abt our finances. wot to do with a man who thinks i will take money to my kabar?? its not easy.. its just not that easy/ ppl mite say just help him out every now and then but no it will encourage him to continue askin and askin cus as it is his financial prbs will never come to an end. i can for sure give him loan too but he will never b able to pay it back either considerin how difficult it is each money to meet our expenses. its a no win situation trust me