Re: losing my sleep over an issue
NJ the more u'll stretch this issue the more it will become serious. money is such a killer thing. if he's not saving or being strategic u save. don't save cash... keep it engaged. save as RESPs for each kid, RRSP for urself and him, pay random amounts over ur mortgage to pay it off faster plus build equity. see if u can put money in some investments or mutual bonds, get bonds under ur kid's names or a rental property, gold coins. believe me there r tons of ways. invest ur money in places where it grows. it won't do u any good just by lying in ur account. it won't grow plus it will be an issue b/w u two.