Loosing the plot! Had it enough!!

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Re: Loosing the plot! Had it enough!!

@Tempe5t

I doubt that strategy would work; I suspect it may backfire on her big time. She doesn’t share a good equation with her in-laws. If you read her last thread about her FIL and the the time he came to stay with them, you’ll get an idea. My guess is that if she were to speak to them, they’d take offense to it and complain to their son that, “your wife doesn’t want you giving us a single penny.”

I did not, yeah.

That really sucks. Get someone involved though, I’d say. If it helps, without a fight, go to your parent’s house just to give yourself some time to cool off and think about what needs to be done.

How’s the communication between both of you? Have you tried talking to your husband about how you feel about everything? How does he respond? Does he care?

If the house chores are too much and your husband doesn’t help you with it - leave it, don’t do it! I’m serious. When he asks you you didn’t cook anything - tell him you were tired or not feeling well and there’s no one to help you.

Try offering him this solution - you are going to find a job! Your parents will be coming to take care of the baby. Just try and see if he gets the idea that you are not simply happy with the way he just doesn’t care.