Re: loosing hope
i have read your story, and to be realistic and experienced, i would request you to kindly give it a 2nd thought. as the boy seems very irresposible and c as far as the girls' issue is concerned, don't live in an imaginative world. if he remains the same after marriage and then u question he will say that it all was very clear to you bfor marriage.
the other things is that you have spent a lot of time and dear the more you spend time with the other person, the more u start knowing him in reality. as bfor engagement most of the boys focus on laying as impression and the normal short duration is usually a-make-believe world. this is for sure the reality and i m giving you the right advics. though, breaking this relation is not the only sloution. make many things clear to him. talk openly, tell him about all ur thoughts and apprehensions based on the provided information by him. kindly don't look for the love you have for him, as it's still not late. i haven't read even a single thing from him which shows that he has love for u. the actions which he does are expected from any relation. ur parents will never shun u away, but think abt the future with him in the way as can b forcasted in the light of stated facts.
although it seems impossible to break now but think abt the worst which can happen............ it seems as u r justifying him a lot. after all both of u have 2 make a family and a resposible partner is a must!