Re: loosing hope
^ I completely agree.
I know the last thing you want to hear is "break the engagement". But everytime I come across a post like this, I think to myself: What would I tell my sister? If this was my little sister, what would I do? I would drag her far away from this man, kicking and screaming.
He passes time with other women NOW, he will be bringing them home later. He has no problem breaking the engagement with you, wants you to sleep in the hallway, has no plans for the future, is not responsible, does not love you as much as you love him, is not financially stable, flirts with other women, etc etc etc.
This is not a quality relationship. I think you're just trying to make it work because of all the hard work you have put into him. You dont want it all to be a waste and for nothing. Its okay, Allah swt will give you better. Everyone says that but they say it because its true. This guy is not The One for you.