lol seems like you really came here to point out my post. yes I agree with you that people don’t actually do whatever they say or claim. If a person is good looking then I won’t resist admiring his/her beauty and smartness but if I find him/her abusing or cursing then definitely I would prefer to stay away from such people no matter how they look. For me your LANGUAGE that makes the personality.
BOTTOM LINE insaan dekhnay main khoobsoorat ho but jab wo munh kholay to koi uss ki taraf dekhna bhi passand na karay 
jis ko baat karnay ki tameez na ho uss ko koi kaise tolerate kar sakta hai, atleast I don’t ignore such things for the sake of beauty.