Re: looks versus mind
^ I agree with you. In the long run, it is only the wisdom and heart that can keep the two together. If we look at life as a whole there are so many ups and downs that two people have to face, there are so many occassions where extreem support from the spouse is needed and if the concentration is on looks, I am afraid, life will srew up.
Personally, I also give extreem importance to the approach of a girl towards life rather than her looks. What are her priorities in life, what are her long term goals about life etc etc. A girl must be reasonable, is all that I think of as far as looks are concerned.
Any nonserious girl, I notice, conscious about her looks is a ground for me to think twice, thrice and more :p and may be get back from her..............