Re: Looking for sincere advice to save my family
So far your attitude towards this issue is like "jis tarah gaye hu, usse tarah wapis aa jao, phir baat karain gai", I can be wrong but this is the impression I am getting from your posts. I also sense some class differences between the two families and you exhibited that she or her family were somewhat inferior than yours. Getting back your wife is secondary issue here, your main issue is your ego that how she left you! I can bet good money on it that even if she returns now, this will start all over again in few months.
To make this relationship work you have to let go of your ego and misconecption that she is somewhat inferior than you. She might have some short comings, but taunting is not the solution. You need to get in terms with yourself that you will have to stepdown from your high horse and treat her and her parents with respect. The reason she is not answering or responding to your calls is that she must be terrified of you, after getting threatened that you will take the children away from her. You have to prove to her that children is not the only issue here, and you also want her back to make a family. There is no harm in accpeting your shortcoming in front of your wife it will not make you any lesser of a man.