Re: Looking for a wife
Sounds reasonable. Do your parents have any requirements? Hope you take that into consideration as well.
Re: Looking for a wife
Ppl concentrate we are here to find dulhan for CM.
Chalo, CM rahe-rast pai agayey. Shukr karna chahiyey!
Truth is, there are plenty of girls like this and on paper those girls match all of your requirements. But, aside from the issue of whether you meet her listed requirements, the bigger issue is how do you recognize in her that intangible quality that can’t be listed - the connection that makes her the one you want to risk your heart on?
Nevertheless, good luck - ab hum sab mil kai dua kartein hai key CM ko issi duniya main apni Hoor/Pari miljayay 
. Ameen
^
Allah mian CM ko issi duniya mein apni big bbs* wali Hoor/Pari miljaye * Ameen. 
Re: Looking for a wife
Of course there are such girls. I hope u find ur match CM I`ll pray for you. All the best. ;)
Re: Looking for a wife
CM, good luck finding someone willing to have 40 kids… saari zindagi bachay hee paida kartay raho, tauba 
Finally told my parents I am ready but before that I wanted to see if the woman of my desires is actually available on this worldly plane. Or am I seeking a nymph from the fabled gardens of Babylon. So gentlemen I shall list the characteristics and lets see if you agree that there is such a desi woman on this planet or am I really aiming too high?
For you women reading this, here is my legal disclaimer:
A. I don't care what her age is. If she is older, who cares. B. I don't care what her caster/ethnicity is. That stuff is unislamic. C. I don't care for her family background. My mother however does. They have to be compatible. D. Sunni/Shia does not matter. E. Beauty is relative. That is my preference.
Intelligent. I want a smart girl. Not just your average smart. One who enjoys discourse which is both abstract and current. Be it discussing the latest political developments or to art and hanging out a museums. Masters degree minimum.
Out-going and adventerous. I am not really into museums, or heading to the park for a lazy afternoon. I want someone who takes into account the more effiminate aspects of life. Someone who says lets go out for dinner to this place because I heard it is good. Me? I would say, this place we have been to a few times. It has great food lets go there.
Lived abroad. I am not looking for a home grown desi girl. I am not looking for an ABCD. A nice balance of both. I am looking for someone who has seen both sides of Pakistani society and accepts it as part of her heritage and what should be instilled in our kids. All 40 of them :D
More religious than me. I am fairly religious for all my vulgar actions :D I don't mind a hijabi, I don't mind someone who wears jeans. These issues are irrelevant. I am looking for more the mind and the soul. As the mother of my children and the woman that play the most important role in their upbrining, I want my kids to grow up to be proud muslims and proud of their heritage.
Sense of humor. An absolute must. I am one who likes to mock and troll when I am in the mood. I also enjoy a playful female counterpart. One who can take a joke, laugh at my silliness and then whack me on the back of the head when I go to far, and there are a lot of those cases :D
A woman. I want someone who is independent, courageous and self-confident. That however does not mean she is a butch lesbian. Being effiminate is a highly desirable trait in a woman. She dolls herself up and the rest. Basically a girly girl. But that does not mean she is a walkover or a pushover.
Independent and self-confident. I seek an equal. Not lesser or better. But someone who looks good on my arm and I look good on her arm.
Big breasts :D Nothing less than a 34 C. No 36 A does not cut it!!!
So gents is the woman I seek available on this planet? Or am I going to have to wait for my Hoors?
Point number 8. Nothing except you only have one destination and that is LAHORE,LAHORE...........................!
- Intelligent. I want a smart girl. Not just your average smart. One who enjoys discourse which is both abstract and current. Be it discussing the latest political developments or to art and hanging out a museums. Masters degree minimum.
lol dude, what are your qualifications??? triple PhD?
^ with 34 C's?
Desi girls?
Ok, fine, maybe the northern stolk. We Karachittes are pretty flat.
Not true at all!!! You have very very limited exposure it seems. :D
I thought you belong to memon class if I am not mistaken, and still???
Re: Looking for a wife
what is the code for Yawn smilie?
Avoiding violence at life1, maybe? 
CM, what are you going to do with the list?
A. Keep it to yourself and try and find one.
B. Send it to your parents.
C. Both A and B.
D. Keep it as a souvenir of good old days when you are not really distant from the real ‘hoors’.
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*Can we please stop talking about the cup sizes of women from certain cities? Its pretty demeaning. Thanks. *
lol dude, what are your qualifications??? triple PhD?
he wishes
if only his brain was as big as his ego, right
Finally told my parents I am ready but before that I wanted to see if the woman of my desires is actually available on this worldly plane. Or am I seeking a nymph from the fabled gardens of Babylon. So gentlemen I shall list the characteristics and lets see if you agree that there is such a desi woman on this planet or am I really aiming too high?
For you women reading this, here is my legal disclaimer:
A. I don't care what her age is. If she is older, who cares. B. I don't care what her caster/ethnicity is. That stuff is unislamic. C. I don't care for her family background. My mother however does. They have to be compatible. D. Sunni/Shia does not matter. E. Beauty is relative. That is my preference.
Intelligent. I want a smart girl. Not just your average smart. One who enjoys discourse which is both abstract and current. Be it discussing the latest political developments or to art and hanging out a museums. Masters degree minimum.
Out-going and adventerous. I am not really into museums, or heading to the park for a lazy afternoon. I want someone who takes into account the more effiminate aspects of life. Someone who says lets go out for dinner to this place because I heard it is good. Me? I would say, this place we have been to a few times. It has great food lets go there.
Lived abroad. I am not looking for a home grown desi girl. I am not looking for an ABCD. A nice balance of both. I am looking for someone who has seen both sides of Pakistani society and accepts it as part of her heritage and what should be instilled in our kids. All 40 of them :D
More religious than me. I am fairly religious for all my vulgar actions :D I don't mind a hijabi, I don't mind someone who wears jeans. These issues are irrelevant. I am looking for more the mind and the soul. As the mother of my children and the woman that play the most important role in their upbrining, I want my kids to grow up to be proud muslims and proud of their heritage.
Sense of humor. An absolute must. I am one who likes to mock and troll when I am in the mood. I also enjoy a playful female counterpart. One who can take a joke, laugh at my silliness and then whack me on the back of the head when I go to far, and there are a lot of those cases :D
A woman. I want someone who is independent, courageous and self-confident. That however does not mean she is a butch lesbian. Being effiminate is a highly desirable trait in a woman. She dolls herself up and the rest. Basically a girly girl. But that does not mean she is a walkover or a pushover.
Independent and self-confident. I seek an equal. Not lesser or better. But someone who looks good on my arm and I look good on her arm.
Big breasts :D Nothing less than a 34 C. No 36 A does not cut it!!!
So gents is the woman I seek available on this planet? Or am I going to have to wait for my Hoors?
Hahahahaha :) wait and see what happens after marriage !
I like your open mind CM with many things. cheers to you!
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Ah ha! The game is a foot. Now to add the real meat to the situation. Firstly point 8 is a deal breaker. If she is anything less than a 34 C I am not interested. She can go on steriods if she needs to :D
Now to the ladies saying that many girls fit the mold, I am sorry but that is certain not true. Intelligence is a relative thing, but there are very few people that are truly intelligent. I am not one of those. Then there are a larger portion who are above average. That is what I am looking for. Beyond average. And just because you think you are intelligent doesn't mean you infact are. If you at any point had straight hair, big hoop earrings and you wore skin tight jeans. You are definitely not the woman for me. I do not do desi barbie clones!
Oh yes to clarify. Just you have a masters does not make you smart. If you have a masters from a one of the top 10 colleges in your field, that makes you smart. If you have been holding good internships in presitgious organizations. That makes you smart. You see how the picture is shaping up.
Masters in a valid subject. I am sorry but a Masters in Art History is not a masters. A masters in photography is not a masters. And for the love of god no Doctors. A woman who thinks its perfectly fine to rip out a person's organs is not a woman I want to be dealing with. God knows what she would do to me with a knife. Oh yeah no psychologists. She would use all that psycho babble to analyze me and she would end up on her butt out on the street.
Secondly the living abroad situation, I don't want a girl who has say lived all her life in the US and only visited Pakistan 60 days out of 4 years. That does not work. Pakistan is not a vacation spot. It is my home and I want someone who feels at home in Pakistan and doesn't consider it a chore to live there or even visit. So the basis is a Pakistani who has spent time in Pakistan for a significant portion of her life.
Now the real problem is finding a woman who is self-confident and independent but does not have any undue baggage. That is a generic problem with desi women. A Girl who is overly independent and assertive usually comes from an environment where she was wronged for being in her eyes too submissive of passive. Usually other guy baggage. So she over compensates. Finding one that is naturally self-confident is difficult.
PCG what does family background mean? Go figure. Honestly I think Didi/Mom are looking at the realistic aspects of the marriage. Same economic strata, same professional and academic backgrounds. Compatible family values. Same religious values. Same social/cultural values. Stuff that actually makes sure that the marrige gels and works.
Finally told my parents I am ready but before that I wanted to see if the woman of my desires is actually available on this worldly plane. Or am I seeking a nymph from the fabled gardens of Babylon. So gentlemen I shall list the characteristics and lets see if you agree that there is such a desi woman on this planet or am I really aiming too high?
For you women reading this, here is my legal disclaimer:
A. I don't care what her age is. If she is older, who cares. B. I don't care what her caster/ethnicity is. That stuff is unislamic. C. I don't care for her family background. My mother however does. They have to be compatible. D. Sunni/Shia does not matter. E. Beauty is relative. That is my preference.
Intelligent. I want a smart girl. Not just your average smart. One who enjoys discourse which is both abstract and current. Be it discussing the latest political developments or to art and hanging out a museums. Masters degree minimum.
Out-going and adventerous. I am not really into museums, or heading to the park for a lazy afternoon. I want someone who takes into account the more effiminate aspects of life. Someone who says lets go out for dinner to this place because I heard it is good. Me? I would say, this place we have been to a few times. It has great food lets go there.
Lived abroad. I am not looking for a home grown desi girl. I am not looking for an ABCD. A nice balance of both. I am looking for someone who has seen both sides of Pakistani society and accepts it as part of her heritage and what should be instilled in our kids. All 40 of them :D
More religious than me. I am fairly religious for all my vulgar actions :D I don't mind a hijabi, I don't mind someone who wears jeans. These issues are irrelevant. I am looking for more the mind and the soul. As the mother of my children and the woman that play the most important role in their upbrining, I want my kids to grow up to be proud muslims and proud of their heritage.
Sense of humor. An absolute must. I am one who likes to mock and troll when I am in the mood. I also enjoy a playful female counterpart. One who can take a joke, laugh at my silliness and then whack me on the back of the head when I go to far, and there are a lot of those cases :D
A woman. I want someone who is independent, courageous and self-confident. That however does not mean she is a butch lesbian. Being effiminate is a highly desirable trait in a woman. She dolls herself up and the rest. Basically a girly girl. But that does not mean she is a walkover or a pushover.
Independent and self-confident. I seek an equal. Not lesser or better. But someone who looks good on my arm and I look good on her arm.
Big breasts :D Nothing less than a 34 C. No 36 A does not cut it!!!
So gents is the woman I seek available on this planet? Or am I going to have to wait for my Hoors?
How can you marry 8 girls at a time?
Re: Looking for a wife
Yaar CM its good to be demanding , but I think one should judge humans a little bit differently than machines . Don't get into too many nitty-gritty details . They will only complicate the life , and disappoint you if you couldn't find a woman with all these traits .
My poonay duu cents :)