I’m in a terriable place right now, my husband is in a different country and i miss him so much. Wish he could be with me soon:( I need some advice, share your experiance with me those of u who r in the same position or have experianced this.
It sometimes doesn’t feel like i’m even marriade, coz my earlier life was not that different(single life) then now(marriade) life.
We have contact throw mail,phone,msn. But it’s not the same. I have to wait until he gets his vica, but i’m planning to visit him soon.
It’s so frustrating sometimes, i have a lifepartner but still he is not that much taking part in my life. Feel so stuck.
How do people survive long distance relationships?
yes hubby is in pakistan, i'm in scandinavia(don't want to tell spesifically wich country). It's so hard. We have been engaged for a long period before marriage. So thats what's making me loose my patience. I want him with me:( And the vica prosess takes such a long time almost a year. Pray for me that he'lle be with me soon, i miss him:(
awwhhh im goin throush the same thing as uuu i knw xactly how u feeel ...u knw jus try ure hardest to keep ure self busy with my ji we talk in da morn and and in da evening to catch up on everything i knw its hardd bu be a bit patient its bettyer den goin crazy :( and i knw how u feel im goin through da same thing
Thanks u guyz for beeing so sweet:) I'm fulltime student, so it's not that i'm having too much of a time to think about this.it's just a feeling that is hard to suppress. I just want us to get to the next leval where he is physically with me not spiritually. Is it too much to ask for? And i am planning to visit him in summer inshAllah. I have never met a man so sweet, kind, gentle,patient and so much more then him. So i should be happy i atleast have in my life, and i consider myself so lucky alhamdolillah. Per still it sucks big time. Angel21 how long has it been since u saw ur hubby?
welll i gawt married in august das abt 6 mnthes ago and lived with him till nov den came bak to can to get a spouse residency visa and i basically havent seen him since nOv NOO wait he came to visit me for abt two weeks in jan while i was here BUT U KNW WHAT seeing him was amazing and him leaving was heartbreaking reallie shateered me !!..
and u knw ure luky ure a full time student to keep ure self busy ..i dnt haf anythin tuh do!! and it hurtsss and u knww when he left
after visiting mee for abt four days i didnt leave mmy room cuz i was soo sad …basically my point is ure luky u haf somat to do i dnt have anythin and its best to keep ureself preoccupiedd and yeh i knw its incredibly painfull!!
i hav been in this situation.i still am actually :)i hav gotten used to it now.
we got engaged with him not in country.then he came near our marriage but we lived together only for 17 days.he was gone back again.it took 8 months for the visa thing n 2 more months to wrap up everything.So we met after 10 months.It did get hard at times but most part i did well.n finally when i thought no more living apart he got job in a field where now hes on site for months.But i hav got quite gud at it now handling inside n outside of house+kids all by myself.he just comes as a guest,gets pampered n back to work.sometimes i do feel like a single mom :) but hang in there n be patient n most of all enjoy it as last stage of ur dating perod coz after that life will b more responsibilities n less fun.
I am going to Pakistan in 4weeks to get married inshallah and i am dreading the bit when i have to leave my new hubby there and come back to UK especially if i really fall in love with him i don't wanna go through all the pain and tears
it has become a trend to have long distance relationships. I would not speak of a relationship anymore. I don't know what is has become. Takes all your energy and you feel so lonely. I don't know how long I will handle it. 14 months are long....veeeeeeeeeeeeeery long...
and yeh i knw its incredibly painfull!!
when i had to come back