Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine's day
send him a text message in the morning like
roses are red my fiancee is the best
or
inkee, pinky, ponkee tumharey siwa sub donkey
or leaving him alone for the day might be a good gift too?
leaving him alone???? I am a guy and perfectly normal :s :O
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leaving him alone???? I am a guy and perfectly normal :s :O
oops :D
acha leave her alone I mean :)
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine's day
If she expects one, just send one. What's so complicated? If you don't like the idea of V-day don't label it as a V-day present. Simple.
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine's day
If she expects one, just send one. What's so complicated? If you don't like the idea of V-day don't label it as a V-day present. Simple.
OK Janab!!
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine’s day
if and when…i am soo gonna send this to my Woo 
larki keray tu normal hota hai..lerka gift mangay tu lalchi hota hai 
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine's day
I don't celebrate Valentines day, and I just told my wife that, nothing on that day. I'll get her something some other random day, when she least expects it.
However I don't want to be suckered into your typical Western Hallmark BS holiday, its all crap.
I esp hate how this trend has caught on in Pakistan and other Muslim countries. Even in Afghanistan guys and gals are doing this :((
We are Muslims, we shouldn't celebrate the same holidays as Kuffar people.
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine’s day
You are a joy, an absolute JOY, to be around, I’m sure.
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine’s day
I am, I like to celebrate Eid. Why should I as a Muslim celebrate some bs Hallmark made holiday which in general celebrates promiscuity and haram relationships?
I remember even in 5th grade we use to make “I love you” cards (crappy Houston Public schools) and trade them with other kids of the opposite sex, really what is that teaching you?
I remember there was this one kind of “chubby” girl with glasses and she got no cards and she was crying. Really it’s from that age that girls begin to learn how society really values them. People who don’t get any valentines are looked down upon and made fun of.
Why should I as a Muslim participate in this kind of nonsense, it’s ok for kuffars but it’s not Islamic.
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine's day
send him a text message in the morning like
** inkee, pinky, ponkee tumharey siwa sub donkey **
Thats gotta be the best V day text I've seen yet!
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine’s day
If somebody doesnt celebrate/take part in a westernspecial day, then it says nothing about his/her personality. It doesnt make you boring.
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine's day
isn't it funny how** desis** start demonizing every such thing?? they have no problem using other things from the west but they will make** issues over this tiny valentine thing lol**
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine's day
Ok so im getting older everyday but i still celebrate my birthday once a year so wats wrong with having a special day to make one feel extra special. You dont need to be cathlic or believe in St.Valentine or stuff like tht to send roses to ur gurl/guy, you do know tht love is in the air n u knw the thought tht will her guy do something special fr her or not this year may have crossed her mind.. So u might as well just invest some energy n do something fr each other.
Dont make everything muslim/non-muslim, haram/halal. I personally do things for my guy with just one question in my mind 'will this make him happy and bring a smile to his face' if the answer is yes ill give my whole world to it. At the end if you think ur partner may get happy to see rosess on her doorstep on tht day, do it! Trust me u wont become a cathlic by doing so :P
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why trust you? are you an islamic scholar??
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Fact: Common sense is not common in everybody!
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Hi folks,
Can a girl really picks a big fight over fact that her out of country fiance didnt send her any gift on valentines day? Is it a big deal for girls? I personally dont agree with the idea of valentines day ( just a new drama which got v popular in previous years OR i think every day is valentines day why we need to label one day OR blah blah blah, many random thoughts ) but i sensed my fiancee is expecting some sort of valentine gift .... :s
run away from that girl. :@:
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine's day
Obviously there is nothing wrong with giving a watch, flower, gifts, roses etc..to your husband/spouse, Islam encourages this. By all means purchase lots of chocolates and gold for your wife.
However, what we must be careful about is following kuffar symbols and religious practices. Symbols can be significant.
None of you would walk down the street in a Western city with a Swastika on your shirt, even though its just lines, it has a powerful meaning behind it. If a person didn't know what that meant, you still wouldn't excuse them and would tell them to remove that shirt.
Also if you are a practicing Muslim you will not wear a T shirt which honors a Hindu deity, you just wouldn't do that, however that doesn't mean there is anything wrong with wearing a T shirt.
Same goes for Valentines day, its a day based on a catholic saint who was killed. Later this person was honored by the pope. These are all powerful religious symbols, and Muslims should not participate in such an activity.
By celebrating Valentines, you are indirectly honoring that particular saint and their memory. Why even risk such shirk? You are basically paying homage to St. Valentine.
As Muslims we don't believe in Catholic saints or the pope. Further as this holiday is celebrated in the West, it honors promiscuity and haram relationships.
So I'd advise any Muslim reading this to boycott this silly holiday. Pick another random day and do something special for your wife/husband.
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine's day
isn't it funny how** desis** start demonizing every such thing?? they have no problem using other things from the west but they will make** issues over this tiny valentine thing lol**
Nothing to do with "DESIS",(whatever that means) , it's just a pretty basic Islamic principle. You can ask any imam from Bosnia to Malaysia and they would advise you not to celebrate Valentines day.
What other "things" from the West are you referring to? Would you care to elaborate?
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine's day
Please for the love of Allah and Humanity tell me you are female and you didn't misspell rogue.
Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine’s day
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Re: Long distance engagement and Valentine's day
If you're not going to do anything for Valentine's day for your SO because of religious beliefs, then make it known to that person, so they're not left thinking you don't care. That much should be obvious, but obviously, it never is.