Lone Status

[waleedhbk]

I am loner too

People always leave me and thats fine

[sadzzz]

@""LP""

On a serious note though,use this time to get to know yourself better and to become a better version of you. A better you will attract better others.
Who needs toxic friendships or relationships anyways.
Once you are okay with being by yourself, you’ll make friendships from a place of want and not a need. You’ll make better friendships if you approach it from the feeling of want instead of a feeling of need.
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oh this just made my day. So funny

[Cashmere]

@""akaprincess""

I am slowly becoming a loner. And by no means is this because I want it that way, it’s because people seem to keep dropping out from my life. So screw it, they wanna leave? go ahead, I’ll hold the door wide open.

But it makes me think, am I that horrible of a person that no one seems to stick around anymore? a ‘good’ friend, I’ve recently noticed, has completely stopped talking to me unless I call or text, otherwise, shes suddenly too busy with others in her life. whereas there was a time when we would talk daily and see each other every few days. now weeks go by when I don’t see her and every time I speak to her, I feel like Im forcing her. Ive confronted her, she denies it, so Ive stopped.

There were 2 romantic interested recently (not at the same time), and even they vanished without so much as of an explanation after convincing me how much liked my company etc..

These are just a few examples of people leaving, theres plenty more

wth is going on ??? what is wrong with me? I serious cannot figure it out. I don’t like being lonely and it sucks to think that this may be how my life will just be.. I sometimes don’t feel like putting the effort anymore in making friends - or even keeping the so-called ones I have anymore.

I don’t feel like dating, they will eventually leave too, so whats the point? I joined an app, and my account was hacked twice. TWICE people. I mean, if that isn’t a sign, then I guess I don’t know what else is. I deleted that profile before I got the chance to even meet someone. the only interests that I seem to be getting now are guys who are miserable with their married life and think that they have a chance with me by wanting me as a side piece or something. some are even happily married, or so they say. um, no thanks bye.

Alright hun, let’s get this rolling:

You’re starting to become a loner - welcome to the adult club. Priorities change, people adapt and you fall off their list and they fall off yours. No biggie. None of this is a reflection of you as a person. Perhaps you might have outgrown them, or they outgrown you. Either way, do not misjudge yourself. Your social circle should be people that inspire you. Doers, thinkers, believers. It’s better to have a small, smart social circle, rather than a big crowd of fools. Don’t worry about people walking in and out of your life.

Many times we tend to misread people’s minds about us and presume that they like us when they don’t. So if you are doing this, please stop. Giving someone too much attention is detrimental not only in the energy that it drains you of, but also the fact that people push away when they get the attention. I suggest you step back from relationships and let things flow. Work on yourself and be content with yourself, you will attract the right people and situations. Loneliness is universal and gets us worried for ourselves, but turn your loneliness into a means to re-assess and discover yourself. =]