LOL Wedding night issue

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next time come up with something proper for God’s sake

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Nomi is right - from an islamic pov

Walima is required to be celebrated 1-2 days after the consummation of marriage

without it the Walima is considered haram/void

dont ask for reference - google it yourself

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''So I have heard ‘’- O yea that’s quite an argument :slight_smile:

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Learn how to quote and unquote your replies first - Then come talking - you galoot !

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when people thoughts get derailed due to the confusion in their head and lack of the ability to reply back then they point out trivial things that actually have no significance - just like what you are doing

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Sayyiduna Anas ibn Malik (Allah be pleased with him) narrates that he was a boy of ten when the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) migrated to Madina. (He added): “My mother and aunts used to urge me to serve the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) regularly, thus I served him for ten years. When the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) passed away, I was twenty years old, and I knew about the order of Hijab more than anyone else, when it was revealed. It was revealed for the first time when the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) had consummated his marriage with Zainab bint Jahsh (Allah be pleased with her). The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) in the morning was a bridegroom, and he invited the people to a banquet. So they came, ate, and then all left except a few who remained with the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) for a long time….. (Sahih al-Bukhari, no. 4871)

Sayyiduna Anas (Allah be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) consummated his marriage with a woman (Zainab), so he sent me to invite people for a meal.” (Sahih al-Bukhari, no. 4875)

The great Hadith master (hafidh), Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani (Allah have mercy on him) states:

“The Hadith of Anas (quoted above) is clear in determining that Walima is considered to be after the consummation of marriage.” (Fath al-Bari, 9/199. Also see: I’la al-Sunan, vol. 10, p. 11)

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?id=2792

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consummation of a marriage is Nikkah - not having sex …

some people ’ brain when it comes to marriage is like a Gandhi’s flip-flop :smiley:

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CONSUMMATION OF MARRIAGE. The first time that the husband and wife cohabit together, after the ceremony of marriage has been performed, is thus called.
2. The marriage, when otherwise legal, is complete without this; for it is a maxim of law, borrowed from the civil, law, that consensus, non concubitus, facit nuptias. Co. Litt. 33; Dig. 50, 17, 30; 1 Black. Com. 434.

http://legal-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Consummation+of+marriage

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Ironic isn’t it … The prove your point first you quoted something from an Islamic website - and now for the definition of an islamic act , you are providing me a different ball game ..

Valima is not a core requirement of a nikkah - it is a sunnah … Not having a Valima doesnt make your marriage invalid … Read about Mushtaq Ahmed ( Former Pakistani cricketer , who is having his valima after 17 years of marriage ) …

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@ shahyaarkhaaan… you just made quite a lot of people nikkah “faasaq”. mashallah :chai:

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i am not arguing… i made a statement… if u don’t like it… take this :slight_smile:

also i said it makes valima wrong…not nikaah…

and Mushtaq Ahmad is some religious authority?? :slight_smile:

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The circle he moves in - they are Authentic ulma-e-karam .. If they see a harm in it - they must have stopped him - on the contrary he was encouraged by them to have a Valima despite being in a marriage for 17 years - As it is a sunnah … Not a Faraz ..

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**WHO in the world said nikkah becomes invalid?
**
please answer to the point this time

who cares about what the cricketer is up to

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No- You answer first how come an act of sunnah , if not done within few days after the consummation of marriage becomes Haram - under what conditions ?

You and Nomica Both said it _ Haram is quite a big word you know :slight_smile:

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LOL zzzz

come on admit it you messed up

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first Answer my question which came out of your statement .. of making a Valima haram :slight_smile:

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first admit you were confused and derailed even before you posted #44 then i will tell you the clue your query (btw its in one of my earlier posts) - otherwise end of discussion

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:smack:

I want to beat the two uncles of GS up. Both SK and Naabigh Uncle.

Walima is a sunnah marking the consummation of marriage within a few days of a nikah. Consummation = husband wife having sex

If you are having a walima, you are basically celebrating that (technically that IS the purpose of walima)

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aaaaaaaaaaaaaaand a walima can’t be called thus if there is no consummation of marriage. A walima can’t be called a walima as such. :stuck_out_tongue: Label it anything else, but calling it a walima is a lie :stuck_out_tongue:

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he might be but im no uncle - i am younger than you demesne for Gods sake