coccoo......read her previous thread and you'll find that many members (women AND men) advised her along similar lines you have.
i know . but i also understand the situation of the gal in question .
diverting frm the question , i know where she s comin frm
the prblm here in pakistan is that even if a gal has a very successful career (wht to talk of those who dont hav one) n things happenin for her n everthing, after crossing a certain number say 25+ she isnt married or engaged her mother starts getting panic attacks, whereeva she goes wid the family say to weddings or gtgs her mother s always askd the question by nosy relatives " ap is kay liye rishta kyo nahi daikh rahey?" .... " is ki baat nahi chali kahin ?" etc n these things do effect the gals psyche ...... she ends up settling for any kuta billa that comes her way . unfortunately in pakistan when a mother goes looking 4 a gal 4 her son even if the son is 35 she d want a gal not more than 20 , they r considered ideal , as it is believed that they wud adjust easily . as a mature n independant gal wud hav a mind of her own they dont want that .
i know hundreds of gals in early n late thirties with good careers , acceptable lookin n modest still single coz of this psyche here . shame on all those ppl.