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and where does it say in islam to kick out the inlaws?
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exactly… jeeeeeeeezzzzz, if u say u wanna move out of ur inlaws home wtih ur SPOUSE, ppl act as if ur gonna go be a stripper or live with ur boyfreind and have orgies all night 
Independence does NOT equal cruelty and heartlessness… why don’t idiots get this 
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we nvr said to kick out in-laws now did we…kicking out the in-laws would mean the wife moving into her in-laws home and than telling them to leave their own home. there is a big difference b/w that and having their son move out!! and i think u know that
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how dare you call me an idiot :furious:
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Where does it say in Islam that you HAVE to live with them to begin with? No ur not an idiot, but the way some ppl think, that if you want independence ur being selfish, is certainly very idiotic.
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desi’s will nvr get this.
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haha good point! in fact in Islam a women has the right to live in her own home.
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huh? i didnt lol
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last i check this thread was in Health and Relationships . i don't even think i brought islam into this discussion
anyways i m gonna stay with my parents and will take care of them until the day i die...and thank god that my wife is wonderful..my parents love her and inshallah we won't have any problems..allah nazre bad say bachaye bus :)
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well thats good for u…but all girls are different. she obviously doesnt mind. i myself wont marry a guy that doesnt give me the choice of where i want to live.
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You know on the other hand.. my house was very quiet growing up, kinda lonely.. i always wish i had more brothers and sisters... i'd like some raunak with bros/sis in laws... someone to spend time with when hubbys not home... :D
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angel eyes, may i ask how old are u?
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23..why do u ask?
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just wondering. app kay liyay rishta soch rahi thi bama-ay susraal :D
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bama-ay?
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I would never, ever leave my parents alone no matter what stage of life I am at. I have made this clear to my significant other since the very first day. My question to most of you budhay married guppies (Including you Sheraz bhaijan!) is, however; how the hell do you get intimate with your wife when everyone is living in the same house!?
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^ Does a girl have the right to feel the same way about her parents, and also make the decision that she wont leave them alone?
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i cant judge nobody .. but for my wifey i wud never ever leave my parents .. n islam says it all ..
1) its a must to fulfill every order ur parents issue even leaving ur wife exept changing religion !
and seriously for anyone who moves out seperate just coz her wifey wanted to .. if i was u .. i'd rather shoot myself twice ! one can never pay back for wat his/her parents done for him/her .. n if u leave em alone at the very last stage when they need u the most .. then remember WAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND !!!
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1) its a must to fulfill every order ur parents issue even leaving ur wife exept changing religion !
I'd rephrase that. Despicable as it is, there are people out there who will make their sons divorce their wives, and then they'll keep the grandchildren too, and send the mom back off to her pind.
I saw one such story on that aalim online episode where he went to this edhi house of abandoned women.
And i also have a friend who doesn't have a clue as to who her mom is, because grandma forcibly made her son divorce his wife, and they sent her back to karachi. She's actually been at dawats where her mom has been, and she is not told who the lady is, and she's kept away from her deliberately.
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women bytes her own palms .. wat can i say !
and beside u never know the circumstances .. u dont know why ur friends mom got kicked out .. she wud have done something .. or may be her mom in law was a corupt lady .. i just gave u the out line .. y act smart pants scratching it ? either way .. guy is innocent and WORLD IS NOT FAIR anyways.
and if not bieng CONTENTED AND HAPPY with all that ALLAH has blessed you with hazret abu-bekers son's incident is good enough reason for divorcing then wat comes low ?