Re: Living with in-laws precondition
Not quite. Yes, there are some girls who will refuse to live with the in-laws, those girls should set this as a precondition to marriage.
But for all others who are more reasonable and understanding, get to know whether the guy is capable of balancing his relationships with his parents/siblings and you. Will he give you equal consideration and be fair to everyone? Get to know his parents and siblings and figure out will they welcome you to the family and treat you with respect and consideration. And more than that, are you the prospective DIL girl capable of returning respect and consideration for her in-laws.
Like I said, never say never, because who knows what the future holds…