Living with in-laws precondition

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Re: Living with in-laws precondition

@Sehrysh

Nope, actually I didn’t agree with you, I agreed with DC6. There is a big difference between a discussion and setting preconditions. The first is getting to know each other and their likes/dislikes/expectations and there’s room for compromise here. While the second is telling the other person - unless you do this, we’re not getting married - it’s an absolute.

all i was saying was… agree beforehand about living arrangements… and if you don’t want to live with in-laws…make it known to the other party beforhand…rather than getting into it and then trying to change everything… agree or disagree?