Re: living together
Very good point raised Sehrysh 
If the OP is a guy, all his concerns and posts make sense. Not wanting to marry the one he loves, still having concerns about the wife of the guy he loves. lol.
Re: living together
Very good point raised Sehrysh :)
If the OP is a guy, all his concerns and posts make sense. Not wanting to marry the one he loves, still having concerns about the wife of the guy he loves. lol.
Unless OP is a homo guy .... it seems remote....
I wasnt really planning to bare my soul here but I guess I need to vent it out somewhere. Basically I have been with this person for the last four years but yes it feels like forever!** I havent moved in with him officially*, but we have been living together since a year or so. Yes,yes,yes I'm aware its not right according to Islamic laws and I'm committing a horrible sin, though i'm not a religious person really. ( spiritual yes). I moved in for right reasons according to my gut, to make it easier **for myself to care for him. Marriage wasnt a option back then, because he simply didnt want to* marry at that time**. And I never asked.
Now after one year, the person is getting married to someonelse. in 3 weeks. He's got a new house etc. So basically I would be living with him though he wont be around all the time anymore. (hehe) Maybe that would make some people here feel better. And, would that be a little more acceptable?
Re: living together
haha - at the end of the story - you are asking ā zulekha mard thee yea aurat ā ā¦
Bibi ap k sawal ka jawab shuru mein hi establish ho gaya tah
ek AURAT Hi dosri Aurat ki dushman hote hai - hum mard nahii 
Re: living together
i would say ... if you would start living with him and will have physical relationship ... it would be difficult or i should say hard to let him go in future... oofcourse if he is not marrying you he might have intentions of leaving you in long run ... so why to stick to such human being ...
get over with it .. though its tough ... hard but it would be easier now ... dont make situation more complicated for you!
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I dont think I'll leave him. He'll be shattered, and no matter what I cant bring more torture into his life.
what about the torture he is giving you ... you are ruining yours, his and ofcourse his wife life...
dont take this sin n you ... nobody dies for someone ... lifee moves on!
if we would have died without you ... he should have had a nikkah with you
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Well I am actually feeling sorry for the girl - he is going to get married .... At least she deserve a chance to know all of this beforehand ...
don't worry .. after sometime she will be another user of gupshup and will be posting something in Life1 section that her husband is having an affair with someone else and this thing is ruining their family .. .. you guys can save the link of this post and then you can share with her in near future
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