living together

[NomiCA]

Re: living together

@Ashy2010

Very good point raised Sehrysh

If the OP is a guy, all his concerns and posts make sense. Not wanting to marry the one he loves, still having concerns about the wife of the guy he loves. lol.

Unless OP is a homo guy … it seems remote…

@ripplesaround

I wasnt really planning to bare my soul here but I guess I need to vent it out somewhere. Basically I have been with this person for the last four years but yes it feels like forever!** I havent moved in with him officially**, but we have been living together since a year or so. Yes,yes,yes I’m aware its not right according to Islamic laws and I’m committing a horrible sin, though i’m not a religious person really. ( spiritual yes). I moved in for right reasons according to my gut, to make it easier for myself to care for him. Marriage wasnt a option back then, because he simply didnt want to** marry at that time**. And I never asked.

Now after one year, the person is getting married to someonelse. in 3 weeks. He’s got a new house etc. So basically I would be living with him though he wont be around all the time anymore. (hehe) Maybe that would make some people here feel better. And, would that be a little more acceptable?