Re: living together
Yes I agree with you completely and understand it. He is made of glass , he needs both his wife and a toy(read you here) to keep him happy , sane and intact. 
I am out of this thread now. You have made up your mind,now only Allah can guide you to the right path. Ameen.
P.S: I have kept religion out of this thread but I have the right to pray for you , I guess.