How is this experience for girls? I don’t know how many girls do this by their own choice. If I were a girl I would definitely have a tough time living with my spouse’s parents (heck, I can’t even live with my own… 
even though they are the cutest couple that I know off). So is the trend changing…If people had a choice, would they live independently?
OK!
I will take politically correct answers also.
I'd prefer living with my husband. It would be alright to live with the susral for a (short) while though.
Very difficult. The parents have to be placed somewhere after all don't they! Being totally selfish I would probably like to live alone. Even if its in the same street, just a seperate house. It just gives u more space and freedom. But then living with parents has its own advantages too, ONLY if they r the non-interferring sort. Again how many desis r actually non-interfering?
I can't give a yes or a no. I'll take whatever is in store for me.
…and you will learn to like it,dammit!!! 
don't know, depends. If they are non-interfering sort of people as FF said, then gladly otherwise I will think twice. But do we always have a choice ?? thats the question.
Yes you have a choice. Before you get married, find out the intentions, do the due dili on the inlaws, are they the crazy onerous types or laid back chill types...
What do you do matty? You can’t just throw the parents away can u? They need company and help in their old age too. As long as both parents are alive its kinda ok cos they have eachother but if one passes away the other gets even lonelier. How can you leave them by themselves??? Maybe the parents can keep visiting other children a month at a time? Arrrggghhh. I don’t know. Life sucks.
I dont mind living with in laws -interferring, non-interferrin what the heck.. dont we live with our parents? arent they interferring at least mine are.. so what the hek
geo or geeney do :k:
at least I can try
There is a difference between living with your inlaws and yur inlaws living with you. I hope you catch my drift.
YES!!! I do. Exactly. They can come and live with us but not the other way around. Thank you Matty for helping me sort my mind out.
How is it different for the girl’s parents…they get old too but I don’t see any guys moving in… 
Living with someone else’s family is a big commitment which most of the girls don’t realize in the excitement of marriage but I have seen some havocs happening and mainly its due to ‘interference and privacy’ issues.
Right Fayz guys don't move in cos usually their own sons are expected to take care of that. It wouldbe so much better if the girls could just have their parents move in with them!
I dunno about that. I have seen guys ove in with their inlaws or have their inlaws move in with them. That happens more here than in sihtholes Like India/Pak.
So if in-laws move in..you have two pairs or parents yuk na shud do shud…How can there be no interference in such a household
It happens in a lot of other sane places too. India and Pakistan are amongst the two *^$@#%$)'s places where to satisfy their freakin egos the parents have to stick with their sons no matter how badly they get treated by the sons and daughter in law, just cos its againt their bloody conscience to live with their daughters. Such screwed up systems i swear.
Fayz all parents move in with their daughters instead of the sons so no two sets of parents live together.
how many of u r even married in here anyway 
mind it matsui r u trying to tell me I live in a sihthole
i live with mine, it can be worked out if both "parties" respect each others privacy and have a common understandin that neither woman holds a higher place n their son's or husband's life, its on two different level and its two different relationships. As long as the two women r secure that they dont HAVE to fight for the poor guy stuck in the middle's affection, it can be worked out
last thing I would do is live with the in-laws under one roof. It's just too much trouble. Like femme said, living in the same city or even on the same street is okay( if they promise not to come barging in everyday), but living under the same roof is outta question.
Deviliscious, hmm I don’t see it…respect apni jaga hoti hai but living with someone is slightly different…I think educated women don’t have the notorious saas/bahoo jhagRas (I could be wrong)..I’m wondering how girls feel/live when they have to share kitchen, T.V, drawingroom etc. I dont think there is a right or wrong answer to that. How do you do it?
I’m not..are you?
So…what do you say? 
I think its wise to discuss it rather than geo aur geenay do ka nara laga kay baad mein rona 