Living in a Joint Family system

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Re: Living in a Joint Family system

@Colourful eyes

Most of the stories I read on here I usually take with a pinch of salt. I know a few people who’s inlaws r real horrors but they have learnt to deal/cope with them why? becoz they r happy with their husbands and their husbands happiness lies in staying with the family. And I can honestly say those inlaws r now happier becoz the daughter inlaw really tried to make things work. If ur husbands horrid then its a different story. but If u r marrying into a joint family then chances r yes u will have to adjust to the way they do things but tht really is a small thing compared to all the other things married life brings to u

I guess the beginning of married life is a bit like when u start a new job role. all eyes r on u and ur every mov is been watched. First impressions matter! so don’t have a face like a *** all the time

also If u do want to get separate after marriage I think its important to tell this to ur fiance/inlaws b4 the marriage so they can come to a decision and save from the “churail” like name calling afterwards

^ most of the inlaws and husbands are not so seedhay sadhay. They have the liberty of denying & walking out on their own words because they are larkay walay. No matter how many promises they make before marriage & how much you try to make things clear before you tie the knot , once you are married the ball is in their court and they do as they wish. It really does not matter what has been discussed before.