Most of the stories I read on here I usually take with a pinch of salt. I know a few people who’s inlaws r real horrors but they have learnt to deal/cope with them why? becoz they r happy with their husbands and their husbands happiness lies in staying with the family. And I can honestly say those inlaws r now happier becoz the daughter inlaw really tried to make things work. If ur husbands horrid then its a different story. but If u r marrying into a joint family then chances r yes u will have to adjust to the way they do things but tht really is a small thing compared to all the other things married life brings to u
I guess the beginning of married life is a bit like when u start a new job role. all eyes r on u and ur every mov is been watched. First impressions matter! so don’t have a face like a *** all the time
also If u do want to get separate after marriage I think its important to tell this to ur fiance/inlaws b4 the marriage so they can come to a decision and save from the “churail” like name calling
lol i think you can tell the fiance but inlaws..no no..if you tell them..then i know what will be the 1st respond…shadi howi nahi, aur abhi se hamarai betai ko alag karne ki koshish kar rahi hai…