Re: Living in a joint family in North America
You make the assumption that women who ask for modesty in their own homes, go out partying and dancing in front of men, interesting. Heres some homework for you; look up the word misogynist please.
There are tons of hadiths on respecting and caring for your parents, I agree. But this can occur without having to live with them, in fact the only reason you would need to live with your parents to care for them was if they were ill and dependent on you.
Making your wife live with brother in laws, cousins etc is unacceptable, if the only reason is you’re leaving your parents on their own. I mean you havent moved to another country probably just a few minutes away.
There are no hadiths that say its forbidden to leave your parents in their own household and create your own household..