Re: Living in a joint family in North America
i said to u hadis isnt say uu should live with in-laws but honor that i explianed…
problem isnt pakistani girl who r moaning…problem is culture when they have to live with in-laws…when u live 24 hours with ppl whom r diffrent than u with diffrent ideas & lifestyle then it makes issue…problem isnt in-laws they have their own life also…but problem isnt poor girl also she also need diffrent…when u combine 2 diffrent ppl then probllem comes…
cuz wife& husband have other feelings for eachother that in-laws r diffrent…
when u r with ur own mom when u r kid its ok but as u grow u may have discuse with ur mom abt ur diffrent choice some moms agree to change for u some dont but u have blood love for ur own mom…but for mom in law blood love isnt there so it will come via respect & caring but when u will have issue & discuse with her then it will be weired…
also who said boys r more attached to family?
u realy belived it ?
in my country nowadays ppl wish to have girls…all pray for havinggirl is, cuz they feel girls r more caring girls r more responsible…
i also dont like boys of my country where they forgot their own parents…but wat u feel abt attachments is more strong in most countries in girls where culture dont teach a son u have to be attached with ur parents wherever they r!
by nature girl is more attached to parents than guys cuz their feelings r more strong…u can verify it from any sycologists