Alright find me a hadith where it forbids the girl from living with in her in laws? Yes Islam does provide a space in this regard, which unfortuntely is filled with cultural norms. You can throw as many hissy fits denouncing the cultural norms but they’re not going anyway, those who see a point in following them will always follow.
I see so much bit*hing and moaning from desi girls for inlaws, its sickening, which sometimes makes me really believe that guys who genuinely have a strong attachment with their parents therefore can’t leave them alone really deserve to have wives who respects their decision. Instead of wife who puts forced smile yet inside she’s cursing the life out his family members. And no, not all inlaws are blood hungry evil folks, some girls do come very self centred and cold.