Jolie
December 13, 2010, 8:13pm
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Re: Living in a joint family in North America
for u all whom thinks im femenism or against our culture
first im not pakistani…as someone who looks from above i see advantages on ur culture also disadvantage same as all cultures…
but why u didnt reply if its financial issues with hubby why he doesnt come & live with girl parents if they call him???
also i say pro is pakistani culture where joint system is prefered…its not abt money…
its more than financial issues…its abt men feels its easy for a girl to leave her parents & come to a new home…marriage makes a hard time to handle with hubby alone as a new person then imagin u go somewhere that all ppl r same & u r diffrent so its all burden on girl to change her…
for any man tell this to me ill say him to go & live with ur in-laws then force ur wife to do same…
also if a boy has this in mind like any other of wedding expences he would manage for home on rent or any other way…
also according islam as u said privacy should be there…where is girl privacy when her eating time should be set with all…she should eat what all decide…making in a kitchen that eyes r on her …where is privacy to invite her own guests freely…
realy privacy is mean im laying in my own BED???
You keep saying in Islam husband is required to “make” a home nor a room? Can you back that up? Can find me hadith saying a home which is shared by groom’s parents is not a ‘home’?
They are pathetic, egoistical, self absorbed gits. Happy now.