Living in a joint family in North America

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Re: Living in a joint family in North America

@Sara516

Maybe I’m going off on a tangent here but I think our parents somewhat have a role in this

See, for the most part, us desi girls are told “U can do that after you’re married.” (be it going out at a certain time to a certain place or wearing a certain type of outfit or decorating home a certain way etc).

As a result, girls start to get this idea in their head that marriage = freedom from parents.

After a while, those expectations, that having your own home means freedom to do things the way you want, start to stick.

haha. sara is ur mom related to mine. i grew up listening same stuff" baal katvanay hain shoher k gher ja ker, buhat baher janay ka shouq hai…lalala… lol. yea i’m changing this rule for my girls. jo kerna hai yehin ker lo